TRUTH BE TOLD -(9)

TRUTH BE TOLD -(9)

****Phateemah Taheer****

Maza can never understand reason din mata when it comes to choosing a life partner.Mata our life is limited,we look ahead.The husband you marry will determine the kind of future you and your kids will have.Maza always have options of marrying someone else later on,even budurwa if they so please,but mata sai dai in mijin ya sake ta,than ta auri wani,and once mace ta zama bazawara she will have no more options,dole may be sai mai mata,and may be mah wanda is almost old enough ya haife ta,and co-wives that are old enough to be iyayen ta.

Marriage is one of the relationships where one has to be careful in deciding about.No one said you have to marry a rich guy,but fisabillahi ai it wont be right for a girl to marry wanda zata wahala a gidansa,dont look at her as a girl you just know and judge from afar,look at her as Your daughter or sister,would you let your daughter or sister marry someone who can barely take care of her???

Its all about marry someone that has a future,someone who has hope of atleast making it in the nearest future if he doesnt have enough now,even then we girls still have to be watchful and careful because some guys are not all that they seem.

It shouldnt be about what he has in his bank account,it should be about his foresight,his ambition,his dream of a better future and his readiness to be a bigger and better person ta hanyar halal.

So its not ruwan ido,its being careful and finding something that will last and choosing the best father you possibily can for your kids and a man you will always be proud to call your husband,a man you will back at smile knowing you couldnt have made a better choice.

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