WORTH THE WAIT Episode 4

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*WORTH THE WAIT* Episode 4

             ❤️ *Phateemah Taheer* ❤️

Some thoughts, feelings,scents,songs,reactions or occurrences just give us bad memories or become bad memories...When you sit down and reminisce over all that has happened to you or that is happening to you, you feel this void,this emptiness, this regret....

But the fact of life remains never regret anything in life...Everything happened exactly the way it was suppose to happen, you couldn’t have seen it coming and even if you did, you couldn’t have possibly done anything to change it....

I had this boyfriend with whom i had nothing in common with,no compatibility whatsoever, but hey i didnt even know what compatibility was as at then....I was just a stupid 18 year who had a crush on a heartless guy who couldn’t stay in one place....Almost every girl i knew was his girl....i realised this is not the guy for me and i left,lo and behold he noticed i left but didnt notice me when i was there....

He called to beg and plead and cried but my mind was already made up,Isra was so proud thinking i was attached to his absent heart and couldn’t possibly leave him....

“Hey tunanin me kike?”......Isra asked....”Bf No 1”.....I said laughing...”That douche.....God....i wonder what you saw in him in the first place”.....Isra said sounding disgusted by it.

“Wallahi.. being a teenager sucks wallahi....Foolish choices,foolish decisions”......i said....”He was your craziest choice....i wonder why it didnt work out for you two....i am glad it didn’t”.....Isra said.

“He was absent, he was never there....I introduced him to my friend and he started dating her behind my back...he was always uploading photos of her on social media,then i thought he was doing it out of courtesy because she was my friend, but then I realised how about me?If he can post my friend’s photos online then why not mine,because she’s prettier?because its easier for him to feel good about posting a pretty girl’s picture online or because she was his secret girlfriend
Whom he wanted to go public with because she was pretty....the sad reality hit me hard and i decided to walk away and that is one of the best decisions of my life”.......i said smiling like a baby.

“Karma will deal with them sooner or later”.....Isra said with confidence.....”It did a month after i left”.....i said laughing so hard.....”Allah ba azzalumun sarki bane”....i added.

“But how?...you never told me the full version of that story you know”.....Isra said throwing her fake angry look at me.....

“1 month later this guy started calling me like crazy....Sending friends to come apologize to me on his behalf ....i looked his bestfriend in the eye and said ‘bakaji kunyar zuwa ba, when i was complaining to you about all his atrocities back then what did you say to me?...You said ‘when a guy is acting all out let him be..its a signal...Maza love free style....Maza love babes that would dress to kill,all curves out and hit town to chill...ke kuma you behave like a teenager’.....i  am a teenager,so excuse me if i act like one,i said to him...and he replied....then wait till you grow up....and still he shamelessly came to apologize on his friends behalf”.....i said sounding disgusted by the words that came out of my very own mouth.

“Hahahahahha....1 month???But what did this girl do to him haka”......Isra asked curiously....

“Our beloved prophet (Peace be unto him) said ‘Never do to others what you wouldn’t want them to do to you’.....’Kama ti dinu ti danu’....What you do shall be done to you”.....i said smiling...

“She cheated on him?”.....Isra asked.....”Yes, but even worse”.....i replied....”but what could be worse than that?”.....Isra asked curiously.....

“She was never into him....he had a car and that was her main purpose of dating him....She needed a driver for her town chillings....She called him whenever she needed to go out and would lie to him that it was her auntie’s house or a relative....little did he know that he was driving her all the way to the door steps of her other boyfriends”.....I said sounding so sad....

“Its not what she did to me that hurt me,infact I’m happy she showed me i deserved more, but at 18 she was everywhere....doing things she shouldn’t be doing at all,talkmore at 18 years...Subhanallah”.....I said sadly...

“Hmmmm...what girls of our generation do,sai addua....gara ni i just sneak to go on dates to public places”.....Isra said trying to sound innocent.

“He realised i had something good in me when he saw what a dress out the curves to chill kinda girl did to him....emptied his pockets and used him for her own financial gain and plainly told him the truth when he approached her without any fears or regret”.....I said smiling.

“Looser”....Isra said and we laughed out loud....”Boyfriend No 2”.....Isra said sarcastically....

“Really?”.....i said...Laughing so hard..

“yes please...this is getting fun i might need a popcorn”.....Isra said sitting upright and i playfully hit her shoulder down and we both laughed out loud.

No matter how hard a situation hit you, cry it out loud and clear....Make Sujood and tell Allah...Cry out to him....Call him by his beautiful names...ask that he helps you through  it for the sake of our beloved prophet....Wallahi you wil be amazed....You will look back and smile, and be happy that what happened happened...Boyfriend No 2.....The last teenage age....19.....


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WORTH THE WAIT Episode 3

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*WORTH THE WAIT* Episode 3

                ❤️ *Phateemah Taheer*❤️

No one is perfect,my life is far from perfect....The only perfect human i know, my beloved Rasulullah left us years ago, but with hope and his love in my heart i get through the day.

Trust me its not easy being born in this generation where lying to our parents seem like a normal thing to do, where girls and guys openly do what they do without any conscience or guilty or fearing consequences, where sneaking around with guys all in the name of civilization has led to in-regrettable zina ....Yes in-regrettable because they keep going back to those mistakes over and over again....

“Just because everyone is doing it doesn’t mean its right, and just because you are the only one doing it doesnt mean you are weird or makes you a freak.....Its makes you unique, rare and stand out among many”......Aryan would always say to me...

“Holy holy tunanin me kike? (What are you thinking of?).....Isra said tapping me by the shoulder.....”Nothing”....i replied with a smile.....”Well it had better be nothing....Dr Azza is here...If she notices your mind isnt here in her class, out you will go kinsan bata da M”.....Isra said sarcastically...

“Sure...and stop calling me holy holy”....I said with rage....”Ok ta evil whatever”.....Isra said......”Evil spawn....and I’m the only one allowed to call him that....his name is Aryan”...i said and Isra laughed out loud...

“Hey you two, out of my class”.....Dr Azza said pointing at us...”Us”.....Isra asked raising a brow.....”Yes you....go wait in front of my office, after this class you will explain to me in details what was amazing you so much”.....Dr Azza said harshly....

“Dr Az....”.....”Out....now”.....Dr Azza said before i could even finish saying what i was saying..

“Two hours???We have to wait for two hours for her to finish the lecture”.....i said taking a deep angry breath....

“You could clear the air while we wait”....Isra said with a mischievous smile.....”What air?”....i said smiling at her funny face...

“Evil Whatever”.....Isra said.....”Spawn....Evil spawn....but hey his name is.........”Aryan”.....Isra interrupted tapping my shoulder with a mischievous smile...”Save the energy for the tragedy”.....Isra said.....”What tragedy”.....I asked curiously.....”The tragedy of you both breaking eachother’s hearts without even realizing it....”....Isra said.

“Hey we are friends you know”......i said looking at my feet.....”Just friends....nothing nothing after that....just friends”.....Isra said shaking her head, raising a brow and giving me a mischievous smile..

“Stop it”....i said laughing out loud.....”Convince me he isn’t your WAB and i will stop teasing you....

“Promise?”.....i said....”Cross my heart and hope to die”.....Isra said and we bursted out in Laughter.

“Ok....first of all i have a boyfriend which you know of”......I said confidently.....”Who Fawwaz???Please....You guys are a total diseaster....i’d say dump him already”....Isra said....

“Do you realise you are the reason most of my relationships ended?”.....i said to Isra raising a brow.....”For a good cause...yes....i love you Ariana...you are my best friend....if a guy isnt good for you definitely you wont see it because you will be blinded by love”.....Isra said sincerely.....”Oh really?”....i said...

“Yes darling....ok let me take you back to your 3 relationships ago”.....Isra said sitting on the concrete seats at school....”Sit mana”....She said pulling me to sit down....

“back to Boyfriend number 1”....Isra said    glaring at me...


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WORTH THE WAIT Episode 2

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*WORTH THE WAIT* Episode 2

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Friends sometimes come from the strangest of place....Relationships erupt from unthinkable places and last for a lifetime,somtimes....just sometimes.

“C’mom evil spawn”.....I said with my pity pity baby voice....”You are trying to bribe me”.....Aryan said laughing softly....

“No i am not....You are a guy, who better to get guy tips from if not from you...a guy and my friend”....I said pleading....

“Bribery da rana tsakan (in broad daylight)”.....Aryan said laughing out loud....”Ok now I’m angry...I’m hanging up now”....i said trying to sound serious....

“Hey....don’t mana”.....Aryan said trying to stop me.....”Tell me tohm”.....I said still trying to sound angry.......

“ok the truth is every guy is different....what i want in a wife might be different from what another guy wants...its all about compatibility and what he craves or seeks in a life partner”....Aryan said calmly...

“Hmmm...True i guess i never looked at it that way...i thought its just like for we the girls...we all want a caring, loving and romantic husband”.....i said confidently.

“Trust me marriage is more than that”....Aryan said....”For me personally, i want a wife i can play with,before anything we should and must be friends first....that way it’s easier for us to relate and have understanding towards eachother”.....Aryan said....”I totally agree with you, i always look at it that way too”.....i said in my girlish voice.

“Really?....So why more do you want in a husband”.....Aryan asked curiously....”Alot actually”.....i replied...

“I want a husband who can cook”.....i said not sure if I should have said that.....”Haha...really?...so you can become lazy koh??...Sit on the 3seater while he cooks for you”......Aryan said teasing me.

“Haha eh mana”....i replied....”Nikam matata will enjoy...i am a good cook....there’s nothing i dont know how to cook”.....Aryan said confidently....”haba....oh i envy your wife now”.....I said jokingly....”Marry me then”.....Aryan said joking and i laughed out loud...

“C’mon you know you want to...i know you are falling already”.....Aryan said jokingly.....”You wish”.....i said and we both laughed out loud...

“I want to pamper my husband, treat him like a baby....cook him nice meals...”......I said laughing.....”Really?”....Aryan said teasingly....

“I will pamper my wife...i will cook for her, help her with the house chores,make her hair if i have to...i know this all sounds movie-ish....but wallahi i will never let my wife suffer...no matter what we go through we will talk it out...thats the importance of being friends first...we will pray together, play together, cook together, everything tare zamuyi In shaa Allah”.....Aryan said sounding pretty sure.

“Hey does the offer still stand?”....I asked being a bit serious.....”The will you marry me offer?”.....Aryan asked laughing....”Yes”....i said laughing back....”Noooo...it was a one time offer and it has expired”.....Aryan said teasingly.....”You wish”.....i replied and we both laughed out loud...

“How is Fawwaz”....Aryan asked...”He is fine i guess”....i replied knowing that Aryan would detect the slightest change in my voice....”Hey you guys still having troubles?”.....Aryan said with concern in his voice.....”What hurts is i dont know why all of this is going to...for all i know all of this could be for nothing”.....I said almost tearing up..

“Hey I’m here for you...through thick and thin....anytime”...Aryan said so lovingly.....”Thanks Evil spawn....how is Yusriah?”.....i asked....”Still giving me attitude....over what i dont know”.....Aryan said sadly..

“Me kayi mata ?(what did you do to her)?)...You being evil koh?”.....i asked curiously.....”Wallahi aa...i just don’t understand her anymore”.....Aryan said in a sad.....

“Hey lets dump them both and marry eachother”....Aryan said jokingly....”Really?...after knowing how well you can cook and clean and mop and do house chores...i ll relax and lazy around”.....i said and we both laughed out loud...

“Hey i will miss you when you get married”....Aryan said so lovingly...”Me too”....I replied honestly....”I should sleep, we have been talking for 4hrs now...its 4am already and i have to go to school tomorrow”.....I said yawning...

“Yeaaa you should”.....Aryan said in a low toned voice...”I could stay if want so you won’t miss me too much”.....I said teasingly....”Miss you?”....Aryan said laughing so hard....”Yes....and i know how unbearable missing me is to you”....I added laughing so hard.

“You wish”.....Aryan said laughing out loud yet again....”But hey i will miss you dagaske”.....Aryan added....”I know...but I won’t”....i said softly....”You have to....You cant help it”.....Aryan said confidently....”Good night evil spawn”.....i said almost drifting off...

“Good night...dream of me”.....Aryan said....”I ll try to”....i replied with a smile and hung up.

Life they say is a roller coaster and the carousel surely never stops turning....My future with Fawwaz is unsure and uncertain, whatever is happening, or what will happen, i am glad i ll be going through it with Aryan by my side....


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WORTH THE WAIT Episode 1

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*WORTH THE WAIT* Episode 1

          ❤️ *Phateemah Taheer* ❤️

When you don’t understand what is going on, when you can’t explain what you have done wrong or what you keep doing wrong, when you make plans and they fail, trust Allah....Even when you don’t understand his plans....He created you, he loves you and he will never abandon you no matter what...No matter how many things you have done wrong, no matter your sins, no matter your shortcomings, Allah is Al-ghaffur....He is all knowing and there’s none comparable to him..

These are always the words of my loving father who has never seized to amaze me....Having trials of life is a sign that Allah loves you, and having parents that support, trust and believe in you is a rare blessing.

Being a girl and in her early 20s hasnt been easy i must say...I have endured alot, i have seen a lot and i have learnt alot...Some say i am weird, but how weird can one be if its on the path of Allah....

“Ariana its the way of the world now....mene a ciki (what is wrong  with) if you go on dates with a guy?No one has to know....the truth is mazan yanxu (modern guys) want girls wayayyu (modern girls) times have changed...You have to learn to be romantic, that way they will know they re not marrying a dod boring uncivilized girl...haba mana( c’mon)”......My friends would always say to me.

“Its not about going out on dates, Israh...It what might happen while on the date, gudun kar ayi kar a fara (better not to start what you can’t finish)”....i said to her....

“What do you mean what will happen while on the date?”.....Isra asked....”Our beloved prophet said when a guy and a lady are in isolation, the third person between them is Shaydan”.....i said to her...

“Then go to a public place, where people would be there”.....Israh said....”Once we start going out on dates, we may not help where and where we would go to....again, we will be all alone in the car while going to where we are going to”.....i replied now in rage.

“Kinada Matsala wallahi (You have problems to be honest).....Don’t you trust yourself ne?”......Israh asked at the top of her voice.....”Shaydan....i trust myself....but i dont trust myself when Shaydan is in play”....i said...

“Do you want to die single ne wai?...Why do you think your relationships keep failing?”.....Isra said angrily....

“And who said its only when you go out with guys that you end up marrying them?”.....i asked sarcastically.....”no one...Kawai dai (just that) dating should be fun, and when there’s fun in it thats when the marriage drive comes”.....Isra said smiling.....

“I will marry my husband even if once zamu taba ganin juna”....i said....”Na you sabi with this your holy holy”.....Isra said pissed off....”Even if i say i will agree to go on dates my mum wouldn’t let me”.....i said calmly..

“Oh my God....Ariana  are you a baby?...don’t you go to school?Cant you sneak from school...keda kike da mota ma (you have a car at your disposal) .....har kije ki gama harkokinki (you can go and finish your stuffs) no one will know”....Isra said confidently.....

“Allah will know....What I dont want my kids to do to me I wouldn’t do to my parents....my parents gave me that car out of love and trust, not for hideous activities”.....i said and my phone rang before i even closed my mouth...

“mtwsss....I’m leaving , Say Hi to Evil spawn for me”.....Isra said lifting up her hand bag from my bed.....”Hey I’m the only one allowed to call him evil spawn...His name is Aryan you know”....i said at the top of my voice.

“Whatever....your ‘won’t admit boyfriend’ WAB for short”....Isra said sarcastically......”Bestfriend fah”....i quickly said....”Convince yourself”....Isra said and left...

“Hey Evil Spawn”.....i said immediately I answered the phone.....”Isra right?”....Aryan said....”how did you know?”.....i asked sounding surprised.....”You only delay picking my calls when she’s around”.....Aryan said and we both laughed....

When i count the blessings Allah has bestowed on me, i count Aryan twice....He has been my friend for only a few months, but had made just a great impact in my life....He has deen, he has potentials, patience and yes we are both pisces....probably explains why we are so compatible....where could this be going?....but hey, he has a girlfriend Isriah and i have a boyfriend Fawaaz...plus its just Isra’s crazy thoughts..... or atleast so i tell myself.

Next Episode coming soon.
Next Episode coming soon.

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