TRUTH BE TOLD -(3)

TRUTH BE TOLD -(3)

You dont have to see both ends of this world before you realise and know that guys will always be guys...."the more you show them how much you love and care about them,the more you tend to lose value in their eyes".....this saying really is strange,but it is also very true...

Guys are a difficult breed of the human specie,sometimes no matter how much you care,you just have to ignor them a little from time to time...It just how their nature is,hausawa nacewa "duk wadda ta maida namiji uba,zata mutu maraya"....this saying has been proved times without number.....

1.Hausawa sunce "ice tun yana danye ake tankwara shi,the way you treat a guy or let him treat you from the begining of your relationship,is the way things will continue for as long as you two are together,if you teach him to respect you,he will treat you like a queen,but if you behave too soft,wai ke mai too much bayaiya(respect),walllahi he will take you for granted...its just how guys are,they cant help it.

2.ignor him a little from time to time---this will leave him wondering if he did something wrong and he will try everything he possible can to win back the old you back.

3.No guy who truly loves you,will ignor you when you start acting distant----he will keep wondering what he could  have done wrong,or what he could have done different and look for ways to make it up to,but never drag it too long.

4.As girls,we just have to be classy when dealing with guys.Guys have a hunger for classy and level headed girls,no guy wants to be monitored or stalked or disturbed.Give him space from time to time.

5.We build what we want to see in guys,never be disrespectful,never be arrogant,be pushy once in a while but not too pushyy or you may become the one at the receiving end.

6.Never be too clingy---try to not always call, or text i love you rubbish,i miss you rubbish,Pretend you dont sometimes,make him beg you to hear those words,dont make them too cheap to hear.

7.Never be too quick to say "yes i will be at home sae kazo".....haba mana,say things like "zamu fita da mummy/umma/mama,i ll let you know when i get back"...even if you are not going anywhere-----this will make him long to see you at every opportunity,instead of you being too quick to let him come over,if you do that,a day will come when you will so badly want to see him,shikuma a lokacin ne zai ce he has things to do.

Whatever we do,we do for our own good.If you dont do these things to him,he will do them to you because namiji dan kunama ne.

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